Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Mother, where am I?


December 9, 2013

The new title of this blog should be "Mother, where am I?" Because I ask myself this question a lot. This week has been pretty chilly, a little snowy, but nothing like what America is getting it sounds like. And you all thought I was going to the frozen wasteland. The first day it actually snowed I maybe got a little too excited and put on my snow boots - they were definitely overkill. But the double tights are a necessity sometimes.

Last Monday was barrels of fun, as we toured the Shaktar (local soccer team) stadium as a zone. The tour was all in Russian, but I caught some of the translations for the senior couple, and it was just fun to look around. Plus I got some good pictures, which always makes a place worth it.
 

 
 
 
 
 
We did a lot more tracting this week, which can yield some interesting results. We had more people answer the door this week than before, but that also meant we had more people look at us, shake their head, call us "devyshkie" (young women) in a condescending manner, and generally act like we just ruined their day. Goodness people, we just wanted to share a message that has brought joy and happiness to our lives, and millions of others. To be fair, people also declined in more pleasant ways as well. The last apartment we tracted one day, this man answered who had previously received a tracheotomy, or whatever that is called. It was kind of trippy. Like talking to a Russian cyborg. He was very nice though. And then we had to walk down the stairs past some Ribiata (young men), who made some comments to/about us, that I thankfully didn't understand, and that when I asked Sis. Pharis about them she just said "not important."
 
On Tuesday, Sis. Pharis was not feeling very well, and during lunch hour was lying in bed for a little bit. I decided to finally fix this one skirt that I've been meaning to for a while. So first I prepared dinner for later that night (in the crock pot), then washed the dishes, hung up my laundry, made some herbal tea for Sis. Pharis, and sat down in our big easy chair to sew up my skirt. I suddenly felt so domestic. The mission changes you. I also had to laugh, because I remember when I first came into country, Sis. Pharis' last companion was telling me the next day was Sis. Pharis' birthday, and I should fix her some herbal tea, and I was thinking I didn't even know how to make tea. And now I know how much honey to put in, plus the fact that she likes to add a little cold water to it so it’s not so hot. Learning every day.

And now for a cool short story. So the sisters that serve in Center Donestk called to say they had an investigator that actually lives in our area, and they were passing him to us. His name is Slavic, and as they are describing him, I'm like, "wait, is this the Slavic I met?" Yep! This is that guy, way back when I was on a split in Center, that randomly showed up to another lesson, and I had that chat with. So I've met this guy, and he remembers me! Exciting. We've called him several times, and he's excited to meet, he's just really busy.

And now for a hilarious story. So last week I forgot to write about the time my boot got stuck in the door. Yes, on the way home one night on the bus, our stop came up, and the accordion door came open, and just happened to catch the very end of my boot. And that was it. There is no budging those accordion doors. There I was stuck like an idiot and couldn't get off. So we missed our stop. And now for an even better story. So we had Zone Conference Friday, which means we had to ride into center in the morning, when the busses are packed. The 77 bus pulls up, the bus we need, and which doesn't come around often, and it's already pretty full. Sis. Pharis gets on, this other girl gets on, and this thing is full. But I need to get on. So I did like a Ukrainian and shoved. Someone yelped. So now my feet are on, but my body is still kind of sticking out the door, and it's an accordion door that is now trying to close. The bus is moving, I'm still kind of hanging out, and this door is smashing me. Somehow I managed to wriggle myself enough that the door shut. I really did not think this bus was going to make it, it was so packed. You should have heard it groaning. So then we come to the next stop, and thankfully the driver doesn't open the back door (where I am). But the next stop he did, and it is just smashing me. Thankfully, my guardian angel, the girl who got on before me, and who I think is the one who yelped, yells to the bus driver to "close the back door!" But then on the way to the next stop someone indicated that they needed to get out - through the back. So the stop comes, the door opens, smashing me, and Sis. Pharis steps out. But I can't get out, because I'm smashed in the door. So guardian angel yells to close the door. Then the driver starts driving away, and everyone yells "wait!" So then I wriggle into Sis. Pharis's spot, they re-open the door, the guy gets out, Sis. Pharis and I step back on, and the fiasco is done. I was quite the spectacle though.

Zone Conference itself was great. We learned that the Lochhead’s Christmas present to us is that on the 31st of December we are all going to go see the Nutcracker Ballet! I'm so excited! :D Sister Lochhead also made each of us stockings, that our companion is supposed to fill by Christmas :)

Saturday was another great day. So at youth night Friday night, two elders in our District asked if we wanted to do service for one of their investigators Saturday morning. We were going to dig a pit. Of course we wanted to! So Saturday morning we head out into the freezing cold, and as a district we went out to this guy’s house. We took a tram-by to the end of its line, and then it was another twenty minute walk through chastney dom territory.
It was freezing, especially because I was not wearing my coat. Or a hat. Anyway, we get to this guy's place, and it’s a castle. He has built this place himself, and it has a tower.
 He wants another. The pit we were digging was in his basement, and it will eventually be a pool. We dug, put the dirt in buckets, and then dumped the dirt in his backyard to make a bike ramp as part of the bike course he's making. He already has a giant ditch in his backyard in the shape of the Judas Priest trident or something (not too familiar with Judas Priest).
 
This guy is awesome, even if he did originally ask if Sis. Pharis and I were here to make borscht. NO, we were here to dig, and dig we did. It felt so nice to just do some heavy labor.
Afterwards they tried to give us borscht, but it was going to take another hour, and we all had interviews at President’s house that day that we needed to get to. So they (this guy and his mom), gave us some chicken, potatoes, bread, and my first ever sala. Sala is basically fat. Maybe I was just in a good mood, because it wasn't as bad as everyone makes it to be. Not the greatest, but I didn't choke. So then interviews at President's which are always great, Sister Lochhead gave us homemade bread, and then we had to weekly plan. So it was just a good day.

In other news, this coming Thursday is transfer day. I am staying in Petrovsky, but Sis. Pharis is leaving me. She has one week in Center with another sister going home, and then she flies home next Tuesday. Weird. Stay tuned for my new companion! I've figured out what my options are, and they're all pretty great. The Petrovsky district is exploding though, a lot of elders are leaving. It should be exciting!
 
I think that's it for this week. I love you all :) Don't forget the real reason for this Christmas season. I've been taking some time to really study the Christmas story, and we can learn a lot from it, and the people that took part in it.
Until next week!
Sister Tanner

I meant to tell you last week, ever since you sent that first email about protests in Kiev, everyone has been talking about it. It's a big deal. People are a little more conflicted here though.

Q - What do you do for your morning studies?
A - Morning studies: 8:00am personal study (whatever I feel)
9:00am companion study (sing, read white handbook, read out of Russian Preach My Gospel, share what we learned in Personal Study, prepare for any lessons that day)
10:00am training. (soon, not any more!) there is a handbook for this
11:00am language study
 
Diana was finally able to upload photos, so here are a couple of photos from the Thanksgiving feast.
 

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